Believe in yourself, it's much better than believing in this or that 'guru' or 'big shot'. Other people's perspectives and systems should ultimately serve you, not be copied blindly. This way, when you encounter problems, you can solve them within your own framework, rather than having to ask the 'gurus' or 'big shots' every time something happens. If you can't solve problems yourself, you'll always panic, get FOMO, act recklessly, and get trapped.